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 Congrats! You have a sissy.

This guide will give you tips for:

  • Reinforcing their submissiveness
  • Strengthening your ownership
  • Punishing/Playing with your submissive
  • Special situations

Reinforcing

  • Chastity: If you haven't already, you need to lock your sissy up immediately. They should not be allowed to jerk like a man, or cum from stimulation of their pathetic little clitty. Start with whatever fits, and encourage them to go smaller and smaller. 
 

Three different styles: normal, flat, and inverted.

  • Clothes: Always make you sissy wear feminine clothes. It could be underneath boys clothes like panties and stockings, or a total feminine outfit around the house. Sissies need to be dressed slutty.

You can be as creative as you want!


  • Rules: Having a written set of rules to follow will provide structure. Every time your sissy follows a rule, they will subconsciously feel more submissive, and become more obedient. Here are some examples of rules:
    • Always swallow your cum
    • Always ask for permission before cumming
    • Always say thank-you after cumming
    • Always use honorifics (ma'am, sir, master, mistress)
    • Always sit down to pee
    • No watching straight porn at all
    • No watching porn without something in your ass
    • Watch at least 15 min of sissy hypno every day

Strengthening

  • Blackmail/Exposure: Create a folder for your sissy and fill it with pictures and videos of them. When they are in chastity, they will be desperate and you can convince them to send you pictures. It's okay if they are shy, once you get a few pictures you'll gain more control. Here are some examples:
    • Start with pictures during play-time. That way your sissy will be horny and you will end up with really sexy pictures like these:
    • Eventually, you should convince them for a face picture. If they are too scared, just ask for something simple... just her dressed up in a cute outfit. Nothing x-rated. 


    • After some time has passed, request x-rated pictures in specific outfits... No face of course... she isn't ready for that yet, at least that's what she thinks.




    • Are you seeing anything interesting? When you each of the pictures together, it's obvious that it's the same sissy. The backgrounds and outfits help match them up. Congrats! You have your first blackmail material! You can use this method using outfits and backgrounds or even physical characteristics of the sissy, like tattoos and moles. Show your sissy! Tell them they might as well forget about being scared of showing their face!



    • Now comes the blackmail. Be careful as this could be illegal depending on how you approach it. The best way is to tell the sissy that these are your pictures now to do with as you wish and have them give you written consent that they are yours. Tell the sissy that if they want them deleted, you will do so, but it will be the end of your domme/sub relationship, permanently. 
    • Once you have collected enough pictures you can do many things to push your sissy further along:
      1. Subtle approach: You can insinuate that you may post the pictures if they don't do what you want. This could include posing certain ways for pictures or videos, or completing tasks that they might feel are humiliating. This is the least effective way to coerce your sissy.
      2. Direct approach: Tell the sissy outright they need to complete whatever task you would like to see them do, or you will post a picture for "x" amount of time. You can get creative and add hours or days if they make you wait.
      3. Reverse approach: Post the sissy on twitter or an exposure site and send them the link. They will be desperate for you to take them down, this is when you can get them to push themselves really far:

      
You have the sissy wrapped around your finger. She will do anything.


Punishing/Playing

Task Examples

  • Mild Tasks
    • Dressing up
    • Chastity
    • Anal with a dildo
    • Buttplugs
    • Anal beads
    • Oral with a dildo, deepthroating
  • Medium Tasks
    • Foodplay
    • Cum play and cum eating
    • Sissy hypnosis
    • Ass to mouth with toys
    • Camming for people online
  • Extreme Tasks
    • Impotence training
    • Diapers
    • PNC play
    • Exposure
    • Intox play
    • Pimping

Punishment Examples

  • Not allowing the sissy to cum
  • Posting exposure pictures/videos
  • Any post-cum or PNC play
  • Chastity


Detailed Examples

  • Scenario 1 - Sissy Pussy Development
    • The sissy is locked in chastity and made to perform on camera for their domme. The Domme has the sissy do a number of humiliating things like:
      • Deepthroating a dildo until her face is messy
      • Using a fuck machine
      • Going ass to mouth
    •  The domme makes the sissy use increasingly larger toys until the sissy can gape.
    • The Domme records a video of the sissy gaping and tells the sissy that unless they can finish a task, the video will be posted online.
    • The sissy is told to use their smallest toy (plug or dildo) and attempt to crawl across the room without it falling out
      • The toy is of course going to fall out and the Domme can humiliate the sissy for having a permanently loose hole and post the video online

  • Scenario 2 - Sissy Squirting
    • The sissy is instructed to drink three bottles of water 30-60 minutes before playing so she has a full bladder and is desperate
    • The sissy is locked in chastity and is told that she will be masturbating like a woman today
    • The sissy is made to rub her sissy pussy (just the outside) and pretend to orgasm like a woman
      • When she "cums" she should "squirt" from her clit
    • This should be recorded as blackmail material

  • Scenario 3 - Sissy Dessert
    • The sissy is told to buy a dessert like a cupcake or pudding
    • The sissy is put in chastity and teased and made to perform for the domme until she is desperate to cum
    • The Domme tells the sissy they can cum with their clit, but only if they follow their instructions
    • Cream or yogurt is put inside the sissy's ass and the sissy is made to ride a dildo or wear a buttplug
    • The sissy edges until the Domme allows them to cum on the dessert
    • The sissy, now feeling PNC, has to push out the cream in their ass on the dessert and then eat their treat
      • The Domme should record this to use as blackmail material in the future


Special Situations
  • "My sissy will not eat her cum! What should I do?"
    • Your sissy is probably feeling PNC strongly and has feelings of shame. Set your expectations before they cum by giving them a choice:
      • "You can either stay locked, and not cum, or you can cum and eat it. IF you don't eat it, I will post this [picture or video here] of you online. Make your choice"
    • This sets clear expectations and will make the act of eating cum more preferable to the negative outcome. Using the threat of exposure relies on you having exposure material, so be sure to take pictures and videos frequently.

  • "My sissy has asked for me to take down a video/picture and delete it."
    • This one can be tough. A sissy shouldn't be able to make these decisions, but ethically, they should at least have an opportunity. Setting clear expectations prior to exposure and receiving consent will help avoid this.
      • Ex. Setting a time limit for exposure: video/picture stays up for 30 days.
      • Ex. Giving the sissy a "removal task" such as eating their own cum
    • Another way to avoid this is to create a written contract in which the sissy signs their rights to the pictures and videos over to you.
    • NOTE: Always keep, never delete! Sissies are constantly getting scared and running away from the sissy life. They will always relapse because being a sissy is who they truly are. When they come back, you'll be able to use the material to tease and inspire them to go deeper

  • "My sissy is too focused on pleasure."
    • This is an easy fix. Step 1 - get very good blackmail material... something truly embarrassing and set up a one hour session with the sissy. Tell the sissy you will be posting the material online and will remove it if they last the full session without quitting.
    • For your first order, make the sissy cum in a glass and then put chastity on.
      • This should be completed in the first 5 minutes of the session.
    • Continue the session for the next 55 minutes, directing the sissy to be as slutty and nasty as possible, and laugh as you watch the PNC play mind games with them
    • If the sissy wants to cum at the end again, they must do so with the original cum load in their mouth, and eat the new cum load to remove the material you posted.
      • As an added humiliation, you could make them lick their toys clean after they cum the second time
    • This will put them in their place and remind them that their pleasure comes second and being a sissy doesn't stop when they cum